I gave up loving

Old man

Leaning on the end of the stairs, slowly climbing with a dilapidated body to see two elderly women also descending on the stairs

Then he said: \"When one gets older, he forgets ... and his movements become heavy ... and he falls ... and no one likes him.\"

He continues his rise and the women follow their descent to answer one of them without looking back or paying attention to the presence of a listener

\"I ask God not to fall and I do not want anyone to love me ...\"

Wonder is the things that can be abandoned by man

In some children, aspirations are in reach

Not satisfied with any concession

I want to be a prince - king - emperor - ruler of the galaxy - of the universe

I want to be a rich trader - doctor - engineer - scientist - pilot - astronaut

Now it just seems ridiculous to count these wishlists

As we grow older and we discover an increasing difference between reality and hope, we begin to slowly give up our dreams.

At the same time, we give up on ourselves

Some of us turn completely into other people

A fair dreamer Karim turns to snatching a hypocrite

But is it reasonable for a person to give up his need for others to love him? Does anyone say this only arises? Lying to himself?

In fact this is very honest

This perception was illustrated in Maslow\'s pyramid

A person has social and emotional needs in addition to the need for food and health

But, by nature, a person may have these needs

After satisfying the basic needs (physiological needs, for example), he begins to feel the needs of safety, then social needs come, then the need for estimation ... etc.

When I stand hungry on a cold winter night on the side of the road to offer me a loaf of bread in the form of a picture that appears in it or greed in my love or just persuading yourself that you are an influential and unselfish person and that you \"care\" \"really\"

Sorry but I care more about a loaf of bread and this never reduces my humanity

By studying the theory, some people may be able to prove that love can simply be bought in some circumstances (I am talking about love and not just a simple temporary passing feeling, but sincere love can be inherited even:)

There are criticisms of the Maslow pyramid and this never underestimates the value of this remarkable achievement

The length of the topic is long, but I am satisfied here

With Regards